Anal Sex Toys and Masturbation Guide

Many men and women are curious about anal sex but are concerned over comfort and safety issues. If you too are curious about the use of anal toys such as the prostate massager, then going through the following steps can ensure that you have a safe and enjoyable experience.

Why try anal sex?

Anal play has long been a part of sexual practice for numerous homosexual and heterosexual men and women, both partnered and alone. Once considered a taboo in sex, today it is an accepted practice. Anal sex is no longer a source of societal shame and discomfort. The anus is no longer off-limits, as more and more people admit to having their anuses touched or stimulated. Having gained acceptance as a practiced form of anal play, it is best stimulated with fingers, anal toys and tongues. This is because the anal area, consisting of the prostate, the rectum and the rim of the anus, are all rich sources of nerve endings. Gentle stimulation of these areas with anal toys can be highly pleasurable.

All men have a prostate gland that can be reached through the rectum with the help of a prostate massager. Many men are known to have intense orgasms just from the pressure on the prostate. A woman's G-spot can also be stimulated indirectly through anal play, using anal toys.

Anal sex toys work well during anal penetration

Anal toys can add a distinctive touch to your anal pleasures. Anal toys, including prostate massagers can be a great way to learn about anal sex, either through the use of anal toys such as prostate massagers or through anal intercourse with a partner. Most people, however, get started on anal sex with the help of anal toys such as:

• Butt plugs

Anal toys such as butt plugs or anal plugs are typically diamond-shaped devices that have a thin neck and a flared base; this design prevents them from slipping into the rectum. The bulge in the middle helps the plug to stay in place; in men these anal toys help stimulate the prostate.

• Anal beads

Anal beads are an essential part of the anal toys repertoire; it causes the sphincter muscles to contract, sending most people into intense orgasms. A series of beads knotted into place along a string with a ring on the end, these beads come in all sizes and materials.

• Anal dildos

Start with a thin anal dildo and then move on to larger sizes. Thin anal toys are less painful. Various anal toys, including anal beads also combine vibrations with penetration for those amazing orgasms during anal sex.

Get started with anal sex with the help of some useful anal sex tips

Anal intercourse involves the penetration of the anus and rectum with the help of an erect penis or anal toys for the purpose of sexual stimulation. It is possible for both men and women to ‘receive’ stimulation with or without anal toys, although care is needed for it to be safe and comfortable.

• Ensure that the anal area is clean and the bowels are empty
• Try some focused anal exercises
• Get the ‘receptive’ partner to relax the anal sphincter in order to accommodate the erect penis
• Gently insert a lubricated finger, perhaps covered by a condom or glove into the anus first
• Use condoms for reduced risk of sexually transmitted disease during anal sex

To ensure that anal sex is fun, both partners must be comfortable. Don’t be afraid to communicate about anal toys and what else you like; it’ll only bring you two closer together and enhance your sex life.

Keep in mind that anal penetration as well as anal toys can be very dangerous and spread STDs, so unless you’re in a monogamous relationship and you’ve both been tested for diseases, you are strongly urged to use condoms and latex barriers during anal sex with or without anal toys as well as in any other variety of sex.